How To Control Your Negative Thoughts

Controlling the negative thoughts in your head is essential for developing as winning mindset. There are a number of ways that you can control negative thoughts and in this article we bring you a couple of proven methods.
Develop your vigilance

To curb your negative thoughts, you need to be aware of the exact moment they kick in. To do this, we observe our thoughts in order to identify scenarios and inner speeches that are unproductive, negative or essentially ego-centered. Pay attention: your negative thoughts are with you everywhere.

For example: you are in the queue at the supermarket. You are almost at the cash desk when the manager comes to collect the accumulated money or when the customer in front of you takes out his stack of coupons. 

At this very moment, your negative thoughts might well wake up: "Why is it always to me that this happens? ... He could not have come another day with his coupons! ... I have something else? to do than to wait. "

Negative thoughts can also show up at work , when the new kid with his outsized ambition or your colleague with his brand new dress makes you sweat. In short, try to realize each time they enter the scene, to make it a reflex, in a way. 

From the first sentences jostling in your head, say stop! Immediately connect the thread of your thoughts to a concrete activity or the present moment. Because, what should never be forgotten is that the attention cannot be focused on two things at the same time. If the mind is already busy, it can no longer ruminate.
So if you are chatting with someone and you find that you are not listening to them because your hamster is going around in circles in your head, immediately bring your attention back to what the person is saying. If you eat, focus on the flavors of the food. Or, do some activity that occupies your mind. 

Deprived of attention, your hamster will no longer be able to monopolize your thoughts. Basically, it's like physical training: the more you practice it, the more results you get. But never let your guard down. Because your hamster will restart its race as soon as it has the opportunity. 

Concentrate on your breathing
Become aware of the path of the air that passes through your nostrils, swells your abdomen, rises, and then leaves your nostrils. While you are paying attention to your breathing, you are muzzling your hamster. 
This exercise can be performed anywhere, anytime and as often as you feel the need to. Also try out relaxation and meditation activities. Imagine your harmful thoughts spinning like clouds in the sky. 

Set yourself free
Racing negative thoughts mean, for most people, a tendency to dramatize things or to predict the worst . Maintain some distance from these types of thoughts. Analyze what is troubling you and how you are feeling. Turn your catastrophic thoughts into rational thoughts. Recognize that the situation is, after all, not so bad.

Suppose at a restaurant you sprinkle red wine on your clothing just before an important customer arrives. You panic: "What is he going to think? ... I'm sure I'll lose the contract!" An alternative is to say to yourself instead, “This is just a garment. I'll explain my clumsiness to him. He will understand. Fortunately, my file is concrete. ” 

So you instantly de-dramatize the situation, however unpleasant it may be. Your thoughts can no longer be threatening. If you always have negative thoughts in your head, it is often because you keep everything inside. Record your emotions so you can let go of your negative thoughts.

Here are a few suggested books to help you better control negative thoughts: 

Get motivated for Success - At the end of this book, you will have a clear road full of obvious choices that you will be able to take for yourself when it comes to being the motivated and motivating person that you want to be.

The Astonishing Power of Positive Thinking - In this book, you’ll learn what differentiates happy and positive people from negative ones. You’ll find out why positive thinkers ultimately end up successful while most negative thinkers fail to achieve their dreams.

Wired for Greatness - If you’re ready to start living a legendary life, it’s time to read this book. It will give you practical tips to help you achieve your full potential. Discover how you can implement change to make your life the best it can be.